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Firefly Tantra

Coach & Teacher



Tantra is the union of sound, breath and meeting sensations. The integration of sexuality and connection to soul and spirit. 

I am Firefly, dedicated to men's and transfolk's personal, spiritual, sexual growth and especially healing through sacred intimacy. To be authentic with no shame. 

My work uses the ancient system of the seven chakras, releasing blockages through these energy centres, allowing your energy to flow throughout your body, giving the experience of ecstatic qualities in each chakra. 

Facilitating and teaching workshops is my calling. Helping show that pleasure can be experienced without shame and even taken us into a higher state of consciousness.

For holding workshops and teaching please contact me via the contact form.

Tantra is your path to enlightenment.



My journey started in 2015 when I studied Tantric massage in Prague with Gay Love Spirit and then as a coach and teacher under the Tantra4gay men system of Tantra.​

I initially trained in Swedish and Thai massage. Still, it wasn't until I became a Yoga instuctor, practiced meditation and researched the ancient chakra system that I found my calling to train in Tantric practices. Whilst training I had some of the most profound experiences of pure bliss and love, which led to me wanting to bring this experience to others.

Tantra provides intimacy and connection between therapist and client that is integral in creating an energy flow between us.​

Please understand although I believe all sexuality should be celebrated, I am showing you how we can connect differently by redirecting the energy from one of physical pleasure, to a connection that is felt on an emotional and spiritual level.

I regularly participate & teach in Tantra events around the UK and internationally and have found my passions have come together in practicing and developing my technique.​

For centuries men and the transgender community have been made to be ashamed of their sexuality and sexual desires. I am passionate about using Tantra to free them from this shame and encourage them to fully experience their sexuality, even leading to spiritual enlightenment.



£250 pay at appointment

Do you want to deal with a specific problem or trauma in your life?
Tantra can be used to help in many challenges relating to your sexuality, intimacy, or embodiment in a unique way that can't be treated in any other profession. Using a combination of coaching and practice I will help you with issues, some of which may include-

  • I need skills to make connections with other men

  • I'm seeking more intimacy and meaning in my personal life.

  • I want more choice as to when I ejaculate.

  • Anal sex has been negative in the past.

  • I feel shame about my sexuality.

  • I have anxiety around intimacy.

  • I struggle to ask for what I want.

  • I want sex to be a spiritual experience.

After exploring why these issues are there through self inquiry, we can use Tantric practices to focus on these issues.

Practices may include massage and touch, Consent essential.

Prior to being able to confirm this appointment, we will schedule a call to discuss your intention and what you'd like to work on.

New Online 1-2-1 Workshop


5 online or in person 121 classes teaching the techniques for the multi-orgasmic experience. We will build toward the Multi-orgasmic Ritual by learning the techniques needed over five classes taken at your convenience. Discover the power and bliss that can be experienced with becoming multi-orgasmic.
Classes can also be taken as individual sessions for £100 or in person in my treatment room.

These sessions will need to be arranged between us via email or WhatsApp.

If massage is part of your coaching session.

The 2-hour massage starts with building intimacy through eye gazing and ritual undressing, the next stage is ecstatic touch, awakening your body and raising sensitivity and consciousness. This continues onto sitting together reciprocating the touch.
Moving on to a full body massage using oils. Chakral breathing is introduced to move the Tantra energy throughout your whole body while concentrating on Lingam and Rosetta massage. You are asked to fully receive as the God and Goddess within in you are worshipped.

This session aims to open up blocked Chakras raising the Tantric energy in each area reaching an orgasmic state.



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I work from my home treatment room in Greenwich SE10

Close to Maze Hill station or 15 mins from Cutty Sark DLR or North Greenwich Jubilee line

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