WHAT IS TANTRA?
Tantra is the union of sound, breath and meeting sensations. The integration of sexual energy and connection to soul and spirit.
I am Firefly, dedicated to men's and Transfolk's personal, spiritual, sexual growth and especially healing through sacred intimacy. To be authentic with no shame.
My massage work uses the ancient system of the seven Chakras, releasing blockages through these energy centres, allowing your sexual energy to flow throughout your body, giving the experience of orgasmic qualities in each chakra.
Facilitating and teaching workshops is my calling. Helping show that pleasure can be experienced without shame and even taken into a higher state of consciousness.
For holding workshops and teaching please contact me via the contact form.
Tantra is your path to enlightenment.
My journey started in 2015 when I studied Tantric massage in Prague with Gay Love Spirit and then as a coach and teacher under the Tantra4gay men system of Tantra.
I initially trained in Swedish and Thai massage. Still, it wasn't until I became a Yogi, practiced meditation and researched the ancient chakra system that I found my calling to train in Tantric practices. Tantra provides intimacy and connection between therapist and client that is integral in creating an energy flow between us.
I regularly participate in events around the UK and internationally and have found my passions have come together in practicing and developing my technique.
For centuries men and the transgender community have been made to be ashamed of their sexuality and sexual desires. I am passionate about using Tantra to free them from this shame and allow them to fully experience their sexuality even leading to spiritual enlightenment.
“Profound and deep levels of intimacy I had never experienced before”
Discounts for unemployed and students
£75 pay at appointment
1-hour body massage. Starting with ritual undressing moving to massage using oils, touch and intimate pressure to move your senses and sexual energy through your seven energy centres, experiencing the orgasmic qualities within.
Your whole body will be worshipped. You are asked to fully receive and feel no reason to reciprocate. You can stay exclusively with yourself and your own experience.
The entire session aims to reconnect your sexuality with spirituality.
£150 reduced to
£120 pay at appointment
90 min massage starting with building intimacy between us through eye-gazing, intimate touch and ritual undressing.
I will use ecstatic touch to map your body and feel where your energy is most alive.
Using oils, I will work with the energy throughout your whole body, concentrating on lingam and Rosetta massage.
You are asked to fully receive as the God and Goddess within you are worshipped.
This session aims to unblock the seven Chakras, raising the energy throughout your body towards an orgasmic state.
£220 pay at appointment
2-hour Experience starting with building intimacy through eye gazing and ritual undressing. My intention is to create a safe space for you to be unashamed.
The next stage is ecstatic touch to awaken your body and raise sensitivity and consciousness. Sitting together, we will create a deep connection between us by continuing ecstatic touch, which may be reciprocated should you wish. We will discover where our bodies react mostly to each others energy. This will move on to a full-body massage using oils. The energy will move throughout your body while concentrating on Lingam and Rosetta massage. Sacred spot massage is an option in the experience should you wish.
This experience can be designed for exactly what you wish to experience within our boundaries. I create a safe space where you are encouraged to show your authentic self with no judgement. Through Tantra you can access your true self with no shame.
£250 pay at appointment
Do you want to deal with a specific problem or trauma in your life?
Tantra can be used to help in many challenges relating to your sexuality, intimacy, or embodiment in a unique way that can't be treated in any other profession. Using a combination of coaching and practice I will help you with issues, some of which may include-
I'm dissatisfied with my sex life.
I want to play out my fantasies with no judgment.
I'm seeking more intimacy and meaning in my personal life.
I struggle with inconsistent erections.
I want more choice as to when I ejaculate.
Anal sex has been negative in the past.
I feel shame about my sexuality.
I have anxiety around intimacy.
I struggle to ask for what I want.
I want sex to be a spiritual experience.
After exploring why these issues are there through spiritual inquiry, we can use Tantric practices to focus on these issues. Consent essential.
Prior to being able to confirm this appointment, we will schedule a call to discuss your intention and what you'd like to work on.
£250 for 90 mins or £340 for 2 Hours
pay at appointment
Treat yourself to the beautiful experience of the four handed massage.
You and I will have the amazing opportunity to work with a master energy worker and coach, SensoBodied.
This will be an incredible session to bring sexuality, sensuality and spirituality into your body and mind. Including breath work, touch and intimacy.
We will start with ritual undressing and eye gazing to create a safe space between the three of us to really explore those places you may never have before.
Coaching and sharing can also be incorporated to work on bringing more joy into your life.
To see more of SensoBodied click here.
Prior to being able to confirm this appointment, we will schedule a call to discuss your intention and what we can provide.
The EROS TOUCH RITUAL is an award-winning massage created by Julian Martin in Zurich. It consists of an opening ritual with breathing exercises, various dynamically changing touch qualities, body2body massage and genital massage.
Inspired by different types of trance, breath energy work and massage techniques taken from numerous teachers from all over the world, such as Thai, Lomi Lomi and Swedish.
The 100 min ritual invites you to sink into deep relaxation, sharpening all your senses and letting yourself be accompanied on a journey of different sensations that will activate sexual energy throughout the body.
All massages are individual and performed respecting your boundaries, discussed beforehand. Consent is essential. As naked is our most natural state, we will both be unclothed, this is essential and what makes it so different from regular massage. I massage on a heated massage table for your utmost comfort. In Neo-Tantra, bodies are temples, representing the divine. During a massage, every area is worshipped and touched in a sacred and sensual manner. I approach the genitals from a place of utmost love and reverence. There may be intimate touch such as genital (Lingam), anal (Rosetta) and sacred spot (prostate) massage if/when you're comfortable with that. Tantra is an ancient belief system applied to massage and not a massage with a happy ending. This is a deeper experience.
All shapes and sizes are welcome
Drink plenty of water before your session
Eat a light snack 1-hour before your massage
No alcohol or recreational drugs
Ensure good personal hygiene, wash before you arrive.
Please discuss any medical condition before appointment
You will be invited to pay attention to your breathing
Close your eyes and observe the sensations running through your body. This is similar to meditation, which will also help slow down the breath
If you feel uncomfortable with your sensations or the area being massaged, I will stop
Your boundaries are held with the utmost importance
At any point, if any techniques or exercises are too intense, please tell me so that I can adapt them
Drink plenty of water to flush through any toxins in your system
Avoid caffeine, alcohol and processed sugars for some hours afterwards
If possible, take a little nap, sleep or get into the resting yoga pose savasana
I work from my home treatment room in Greenwich SE10
Close to Maze Hill station or 15 mins from Cutty Sark DLR or North Greenwich Jubilee line
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