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FireflyTantra Men-Trans Queer coaching/massage
FireflyTantra Men-trans Queer coaching/massage

Firefly Tantra

Coach & Teacher



As a dedicated Tantra practitioner, I offer personalized coaching and guidance to support personal, spiritual, and sexual growth for men and the trans/queer community. The focus is on the transformative practice of tantra, which incorporates the exploration of sexuality and sensuality including massage and touch.

Through coaching sessions, I create a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals to fully embrace and explore their authentic selves, including their sexual and sensual desires. Tantra allows us to tap into the power of sexual energy as a catalyst for personal and spiritual transformation.

Using the powerful framework of the seven chakras, I assist in identifying and releasing energetic blockages that may be inhibiting the full expression of your sexuality and sensuality. By harnessing the innate wisdom of your body and connecting with your desires, we unlock the potential for profound healing and growth.

Through active listening and tailored practices, we delve into the realms of pleasure, embodiment, and connection, allowing you to cultivate a deeper understanding and appreciation for your own unique sexual and sensual nature.

Embarking on this path of tantra and personalized coaching offers profound opportunities for self-discovery, liberation, and expansion. It is an invitation to explore the depths of your erotic potential, to awaken your senses, and to experience the ecstasy that lies within.

If you are seeking support in exploring and embracing your sexuality and sensuality, I am here to accompany you on this transformative journey. Together, we will create a nurturing and empowering space where you can fully embody and express your desires, and cultivate fulfillment and joy in all aspects of your life.



Back in 2015, I embarked on a path of discovery and growth when I had the privilege to study Tantric massage in the enchanting city of Prague, under the guidance of Gay Love Spirit. As my journey unfolded, I developed into a coach and teacher through the transformative teachings of the Tantra4gaymen system.


In the early stages of my journey, I delved into the practices of Yoga and meditation. However, it was within the sacred realm of Tantric practices that my heart discovered its true purpose. Throughout my training, I experienced moments of pure bliss and love, igniting a deep desire within me to share this transformative experience with others. Guided by my passion, I became a practitioner of Reiki and a certified Tantra Yoga teacher honing my skills in India, the birthplace of these ancient arts. In 2024 I qualified as an EP trauma therapist working with Tantra  on healing the somatic effects of trauma.


My pursuit has led me to actively participate and teach in Tantra events across the United Kingdom and around the world. Here, my passions have converged, and my technique has developed, allowing me to guide and support others on their own path of self-discovery, empowerment, and the celebration of their unique sexuality.


In my work I see how society has burdened men and transgender individuals with shame, stifling their innate desires and sensual nature. I utilize the transformative power of Tantra to liberate them from these shackles, encouraging them to fully embrace their sexuality and sensuality. Through this journey of self-acceptance and celebration, you can experience not only physical pleasure but also spiritual enlightenment, profound connections, and a heightened sense of aliveness.


I welcome you to join me on this extraordinary adventure. Together, let us explore the infinite possibilities of Tantra, unlocking the doors to personal growth, self-acceptance, and the limitless power of love.



£250 pay at appointment

Tantra can be used to help in many challenges relating to your sexuality, intimacy, or embodiment in a unique way that can't be treated in any other profession. Using a combination of coaching, practice and massage, we can work on different challenges. Some of which may include-

  • I want to calm my mind and relax when having sex.

  • I feel shame about my sexuality.

  • I have anxiety around intimacy.

  • I struggle to ask for what I want.

  • I need skills to make connections with other men

  • I'm seeking more intimacy and meaning in my personal life.

  • I want more choice as to when I ejaculate.

  • Anal sex has been a negative experience.

Prior to being able to confirm this appointment, we will schedule a zoom call to discuss your intention and what you'd like to work on.

New Online 1-2-1 Workshop


5 online or in person 1 hour classes teaching the techniques for the multi-orgasmic experience. We will build toward the Multi-orgasmic Ritual by learning the techniques needed over five classes taken at your convenience. Discover the power and bliss that can be experienced with becoming multi-orgasmic.
Classes can also be taken as individual sessions for £100 or in person in my treatment room.

These sessions will need to be arranged between us via email or WhatsApp.


The 2-hour massage starts with building intimacy through eye gazing and ritual undressing, the next stage is ecstatic touch, awakening your body and raising sensitivity and consciousness. This continues onto sitting together reciprocating the touch.
Moving on to a full body massage using oils. Chakral breathing is introduced to move the Tantra energy throughout your whole body while concentrating on Lingam and Rosetta massage. You are asked to fully receive as the God and Goddess within in you are worshipped.

This session aims to open up blocked Chakras raising the Tantric energy in each area reaching an orgasmic state.



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I work from my home treatment room in Greenwich SE10

Close to Maze Hill station or 15 mins from Cutty Sark DLR or North Greenwich Jubilee line

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